tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post3220963928050203495..comments2023-10-31T06:20:45.622-05:00Comments on Raving Black Lunatic: They're Getting Some, How About You?Big Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02510881583909431416noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-45216423809607186442008-06-12T22:30:00.000-05:002008-06-12T22:30:00.000-05:00OG,Your [male!] ex turned down the sex?Yeow! (Inc...OG,<BR/><BR/><BR/>Your [male!] ex turned down the sex?<BR/><BR/>Yeow! <BR/><BR/>(Inconceivable -- on so many levels...)<BR/><BR/><BR/>--GGGye Greenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15972251323124084977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-57361909540800376052008-06-11T06:57:00.000-05:002008-06-11T06:57:00.000-05:00I saw the 100 days couple on the Today show. I thi...I saw the 100 days couple on the Today show. I thinki its a great idea. When my marriage was having problems I suggested that my ex and I committed to having it a few times a week no matter what. He WAS NOT HAVING IT!! I said that was scheduling sex, needless to say that we didn't make it, not because of the sex, but you can see his unwillingness to try things could have been part of it. <BR/><BR/>I think its a great idea. I would love to be like girl you know we can't hang out Saturday morning is my get me some day, maybe we can do brunch on Sunday! *lol* <BR/><BR/>Not to mention what a good mood you would be in on the days you KNEW you were going home to have some REAL FUN!! <BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>-OGOG, The Original Glamazonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17041450250560458185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-59413381629275277642008-06-10T19:57:00.000-05:002008-06-10T19:57:00.000-05:00"Now those comments are not going to endear me to ..."Now those comments are not going to endear me to my wife or my in-laws, (all of whom read this blog), "<BR/><BR/><BR/>Big Man,<BR/><BR/><BR/>You are **so** trying to earn your title of "Raving Black Lunatic..." :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>Good post, though.<BR/><BR/><BR/>--GGGye Greenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15972251323124084977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-65163302600526310162008-06-10T18:27:00.000-05:002008-06-10T18:27:00.000-05:00"It is all too easy to fall into habits of just sa..."It is all too easy to fall into habits of just saying "I love you" or giving a peck on the cheek and forgetting that sometimes, you have to work a little to re-apply the glue that holds you together emotionally and spiritually."<BR/><BR/>Well said Deacon!Truthizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01955523196532537947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-84552721115883780922008-06-10T13:52:00.000-05:002008-06-10T13:52:00.000-05:00Heh he, I wondered if this was something you passe...Heh he, I wondered if this was something you passed by your wife first...I probably would have done the same thing were I in your shoes. <BR/><BR/>Oddly enough, my wife declared today that we are going to engage in 5 minutes of intimacy each day, no matter what (in addition to whatever more vigorous activity we might get around to periodically)...and she hadn't even read your post yet. Must be something in the air today...<BR/><BR/>It is all too easy to fall into habits of just saying "I love you" or giving a peck on the cheek and forgetting that sometimes, you have to work a little to re-apply the glue that holds you together emotionally and spiritually. I look forward to all of us doing a better job of getting (and giving) some.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-73400765306970860692008-06-10T12:52:00.000-05:002008-06-10T12:52:00.000-05:00My wife and I discussed it right before I posted t...My wife and I discussed it right before I posted the blog. I had to let her get a preview just so I wouldn't be in too much trouble.Big Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02510881583909431416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-43516666527614702082008-06-10T12:50:00.000-05:002008-06-10T12:50:00.000-05:00With as many marriages that seem to fall apart as ...With as many marriages that seem to fall apart as a result of cheating, it is pretty mind boggling to me that we can all at times downplay how important sex is to a healthy relationship. <BR/><BR/>But sex as a goal is one conversation I am actually eager to have with my wife.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-45787882292274341872008-06-10T09:43:00.000-05:002008-06-10T09:43:00.000-05:00I think it's a great idea - it's another form of c...I think it's a great idea - it's another form of committment between you and a way of having time together no matter how crazy life gets. It also takes away the power dynamic because you have both agreed to do this. <BR/>I'm single, but a student of marriages good and bad, so this was very interesting.Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00900726730265994177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-29864865426996131292008-06-10T09:21:00.000-05:002008-06-10T09:21:00.000-05:00Thanks for the comments.Thanks for the comments.Big Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02510881583909431416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-61324121268954164542008-06-10T07:28:00.000-05:002008-06-10T07:28:00.000-05:00I read that Times article as well. Thought it was ...I read that Times article as well. Thought it was fascinating.<BR/><BR/>I'm single but I agree with your two last sentences. :)nyc/caribbean ragazzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09370358466131415888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803135128442396638.post-62588734160970816092008-06-10T00:28:00.000-05:002008-06-10T00:28:00.000-05:00Speak, brotha, speak. I've been married once and n...Speak, brotha, speak. I've been married once and now have a significant other with one child (my only kiddo) and all I can say is, "Sex? What is that?" The sex everyday thing is a radical idea.Kevinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12798054148216785102noreply@blogger.com